Money did grew from trees because the paper used was made from it. Always wanted to be rich and successful one day? The good thing is that you can be there easily.  JUST HAVE SAVINGS! The problem is just that you’ve heard so much from worrysome people, saying that earning a $2k or $3k job isn’t enough. And they’ve been condeming you and advising unless you hit the 4 digit salary, you’ll never be successful. - NONSENSE!

The secret to have wealth is all about about saving money. The ability to spend lesser than we earn. It’s is all based on our incoming and outgoing cashflow every month. What is it about? It simply means we wouldn’t be spending $2k if our job pays us $1.5k. You might not know it but the majority of  people out there are spending way higher than they are earning and you shouldn’t let them advise about “life and success” when they don’t even know how to manage themselves properly.

So, just save more than your monthly spendings, and invest in things like insurance savings whereby you’ll get a bigger amount at a later age. Take a look at these real life examples below if you are still haunted by the stereotypical fear of command that you must be a millionaire to be successful. Do not feel condemned if you practice these stuffs, but what’s more important is to realise the snare and trap of it.

• Gambling - it makes one heck care of his safety to put in everything he has, just to win the match in order to feel good.
  A rich man earns $25k to $40k monthly but he buys a Lamborghini at the lowest $7k monthly installment payment. He invests in stocks, lands and many other diversified things which could earn back over the months. But he went to the casino just one time and lost all that he has. And even signed on credit. His savings is negative after the year ended.

Who is richer in terms of cash now? The rich man can’t even be compared to some ‘loosers’ earning $1000 a month who can save $200 monthly, up to $2.4k by year end.

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Buying sweep stakes – its chances are way too SERIOUSLY LOW. Research proves the amount we bought in our whole life will NEVER be higher than all the winnings we won from it. Now do you see it?

• The probability of winning TOTO: 1 in 8 million (Singapore Pools Statistics).
• The probability of winning Cash/Condo: 1 in 300k to 1 million usually.
• BUT THE PROBABILITY OF GETTING RICH: Instant Win!

Just spend lesser than what we earn in order to save, because even if we earn just $1k, we’ll have more sooner than those losing money in casinos or those living in debt.

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Greed – it leads to a life not worth living for. Having integrity is probably the most important characteristic of a person. Without it, it’s as good as a having a dead person as a friend.

A man earns $5k monthly and strives to earn more. He cheats, manipulates and lies just to get that amount. Would you rather have a friend like this? Or have a simple friend who does part-time work at McDonald’s earning $1.5K monthly but has integrity that you admire?

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Partying is ok and enjoyable once in awhile. Dosen’t mean drugs and alcohol poisoning have perverted the scene means the real joy and dance experience is not there. Most of the time, because of the various danger possibilities clubbing can give, it is vital to know how to party wisely.

A wise clubber should never over drink their limit nor MIX different types of drinks together.

Do you know that beer + wine + champange + hard liquor = deadly cocktail?

It’s no wonder people have died from alcohol poisioning not just in parties, but ON WEDDINGS too. If you are a paper reader everyday, you would have known many such cases- people dying either on the wedding night itself or after it,  which is real sad. So avoid hardcore mixture. If you have champange, have it all the way, probably with abit of wine is ok.

It’s foolish to brag about how much one can drink. Tolerance may be of different limits for everyone, BUT the health damages are the SAME to all who over drinks. The alcohol poision dosen’t choose who to kill or who not to. Drink wisely! Here’s a safe guide to the limits:

1 to 2 glasses advisably.

3 to 4 for intermediate party goers.

Less than 5glasses for “strong”  tolerance people. Anything above will harm your health surely.

Energy drink, alcohol- A LETHAL KILLER mix
This is probably one of the best house pour mixes with Vodka. It is sweet and relaxing but when it goes down to your body, it bites like a snake. And it’s literally POISONOUS.

Drink smart, though it taste good, it’s better to have other choices of mixers rather than energy drinks.

Researchers found out that college-age drinkers who mixed energy drinks with liquor were three times more easily to leave a bar intoxicated than their counterparts who consumed alcohol with other mixer choices.

Many clubs have avoided promoting energy drinks with alcohol due to the fact that their customers leave the place earlier because they feel restless or have breathing difficulties.

This is a very serious fact and we should not ignore it. Just like fast food restaurants–we know it is not healthy but we choose to ignore it and continue to consume it.

Here are several good mixers you can choose over energy drinks. They taste great too!

• Cranberry Flavour: 9.5/10
• Ribena: 7/10
• Orange: 6.8/10

 Have you ever wondered how people can end up selling their bodies for cash? After all, no child would ever say that their life’s ambition is to become a prostitute or give in their bodies to someone known at at club! What happened between then and now that caused such a drastic change in behaviour?

Many factors can lead up to a person making such a decision with giving away the purity of themselves, but the heart of the matter is that they simply never knew the true value of their bodies.

Giving your body parts to a partner has been made to seem common and ‘normal’ by the media, especially movies. Even blockbuster movies that are well directed and promote laudable values such as heroism in Titanic, showcase the male actor having sexual moments with the actress. They portray sex to be a ‘must’ in order to prove that their love for each other is real. Have you ever considered that while we watch the degradation of morals, the directors are laughing their way to the banks?

Although most of us have become sexually active before marriage, many of us never intended to take this route. This is a testament to how pervasive the media can be, breaking so many personal resolutions to ‘save themselves’ for their partners. And why have we allowed the media to do this? True, the media provides us with many good hours of solid entertainment and many celebrities have become successful in their careers thanks to the media, but what of their lives? How many of our well loved stars are maintaining healthy marriages or decent lives? Are they good examples for us to follow? Yet we continually let them tell us how to run our lives. Did you know? Not even ONE of the directors who trivialise sex or support the porn industry has a successful marriage or sex life. Doesn’t this give us a very clear indication of the nature of their hearts? They simply do not care about the preciousness of a women’s body or the integrity of men.

If you are sexually active, do not feel condemned. It is a sorry state that society is in, but we need to be aware of the trap many of us are in, that is the media. You can return to your previous values and perceptions today. It does not matter what others think because at the end of the day, it is your own personal relationship and happiness that you are saving.

People may “insult” you saying it’s vitally important to be “open minded”. But truthfully, they do not know what they’re TALKING ABOUT. They actually meant that it’s a need to sacrifice our own purity for fitting into the fallen root cause of a relationship. Whom have we known so far, has given in their purity before commitment and had permanent lasting relationships? NONE.

Have you ever wondered if true love exists? This is a common question everyone asks at some point of their lives. The truth is – as long we give in sexually to our partners before marriage, we will never know true love. True love is a mix of respect and mystery, and having sex before the security of commitment causes both to be lost.

Girls, the wonderful creation from God are meant to be loved and respected. Having sex only AFTER Marriage is the BEST way to show a girl love & respect. In fact, it works both ways. The beauty of sex only comes alive when there is mutual respect and trust.

Your friends may say that there are other reasons that cause breakups, but studies have shown that the root cause of any relationship break down is the loss of respect and trust.

We claim that it is hard, maybe even impossible to live without sex, but have you considered that we can live even BETTER without it before marriage? We will even feel better too! Statistics already show that couples who have a good, strong relationship are the ones who save sex for marriage.

Remember your own decision years ago to save yourself for your life partner? Somehow along the way, you met that guy or girl who rocked your world, and touched you in places that made you feel so good. What has become of that person in your life now? Can you even remember his or her name? Perhaps, but more likely, you remember how they broke your heart and caused you to betray your own body and your own promise to yourself.

The decadence of our society has caused us to believe that sex is normal before marriage. It has become part of our culture. If you are engaging in pre-marital sex, do not feel condemned, instead, know that you have allowed society to rule your choices in life. But you can take back your choices – you can decide to continue “enjoying” sex, or you can choose to TRULY enjoy life by having sex with a life partner filled with security and respect.

ALWAYS remember that culture is a man-made re-structuring of LIFE’s original GOOD plans for us. Even blockbuster movies or Channel 8 promotes sex before marriage. These TV producers are known for their personal failures in marriage. So why let such people tell us how to run our lives?

You can defy the norm by saying NO to sex before marriage. Even if you’ve tried to do it before, you can make a difference in your life NOW by saving it. It will bring you to a higher level of dignity and glory.

If your partner gets mad and says you’re old fashioned, just let him or her know that you would rather be old-fashioned and original than be new-aged and deprived.

If your friends tease you, just let them know that for you to be like them would only take a night, but for them to be like you – courage and honour, which you doubt they have!

Planning to have a relationship soon? Do not give in sexually to your partner and see the results. Their true colours will be shown and you will either be single again OR begin your journey to having the HIGHEST moments in your life because the REAL feeling of sex is MAXIMISED after marriage!

Since most of the people cannot control their desires in a relationship, then have your partner marry you before any sexual activities. Marriage will give him/her:

• Respect and Commitment to you. (Which are usually lost in sex before marriage.)
• Accountability to elders/parents. (Ever met a guy or girl who is accountable to no one? Similarly, they will not be accountable to you and can leave you anytime.)
• Security and control.

Let’s not deceive ourselves anymore and wake up from the dream of being a millionaire overnight. It’s really an illusion which all began somewhere at an earlier stage of our lives. Here are the root causes that makes us want to be rich in life:

• We were condemned by someone or our parents that if we didn’t succeed, we are a failure.
• We were fooled by advertising visuals that you must look like this, wear this watch and drive this car  in order to be accepted into society.
• We were not able to get the simple things we want because were not working and therefore ego and desires were built into us subconsciously.

We all look forward to the day we can be super rich with millions of dollars in our bank accounts. The truth it – it only comes by work and integrity in life. It’s a ‘sad’ truth but it’s better to know it now. If the huge amount of millions were to come to us, we will not be able to handle it and we’ll be back to square one eventually. This is a sure fact that is still happening to those who have it – whether gaining it overnight by gambling or through their family’s inheritance.

How about those who prayed to GOD to be rich? It should be obvious enough that people who prayed such prayers don’t usually end up loaded overnight. The fact is that GOD loves you too much! You WILL self-destruct if He gave you a million bucks instantly.  What does it mean? Here’s a very real example: You have a 10year old son and daughter. You give them each $1000 to spend without any questions asked because they asked for it. Fast forward 1 week later, the money is all spent. They probably dropped it even or gave to their friends who asked for it. Do not laugh because this is what we’ll do too at our age.

GOD is more interested in inner development of the heart before the outward manifestations of the results. But we always love the other way round which leads to death. Look at any rich playboy out there today. No elaborations are needed for their morality.

Nothing wrong prospering.
Yes, it’s okay to prosper like nobody’s business. But there are steps before we can attain it. Those steps and experiences will build our heart and character that will save us from death itself.  The sooner we know this, the faster we can be really rich.

It’s better for someone to earn a reasonable sum of money and owes no debts. Instead of someone who earns 5 figures but owns a hell bound of credit cards and car loan bills.

When there’s hard work and integrity, money will find us automatically. So do not worry about the amount of earnings or your future.

A point to take note is that never lend people money regardless of how close they are to you.

Here’s a truth about friends who borrow money – People who borrow hardly have any genuine problem. It’s only the way they spent their dollars. We will be mature enough to understand this. If we were to assist people who have spending problems, we’ll drive them nearer to their graves by lending them more.

The only solution is this – If you feel their problems are really genuine and you are willing to lend them money, make sure you are getting ready to loose that amount. The chances of them returning are low. This is just human’s nature.

See recent tragic suicide case: http://www.onlineusanews.com/alviss-kong-22-year-old-malaysian-committed-suicide-6632.php

Countless people especially teens have killed themselves for one reason – Self condemnation. Either due to peer pressures or being rejected and dumped by someone they loved.

It’s something everyone goes through in life but thank GOD we’re still alive although some of us may have worse cases which involves serious issues.

Thus everyone searches for it in school, at work, from families and friends. But truthly, acceptance only comes from God. When someone knows he or she is accepted in whatever they do from the highest authority, they will have the security to help others; TO LOVE OTHERS naturally.

At the same time, we must face the fact we’re living in a fallen world where bad things are happening everyday. Blaming God would be what the devil wants us to do, but it won’t solve the problem.

God usually won’t remove our troubles, but enables us to WALK ON IT instead. Of course, we do not choose to be borned in a rich family nor at the royal kingdom. But as we grow up, the troubles we faced from family and peer pressures moulds us into a better/experienced person either with or without a proper personality.

Every bad thing a person does is a result of their upbringing. Mostly without proper parental guidance; as some parents aren’t good themselves too. No one in this world will plan growing up to be someone dishonest, evil minded or sly.

Remember – whatever you’re facing in life, God cares for you more than you care for yourself. Do not to do anything silly just to avoid solving it. God will send the right person to show you love and concern. Wheather via your friends, family or a miracle you encounter.

You can also seek professional help by calling a hotline if you are thinking of killing yourself. Please call

SAMARITANS 1800 221 4444 (24-hour) or email: pat@samaritans.org.sg

TINKLE FRIENDS 1800 274 4788

TOUCHLINE
Hotline for ages 12-25 :  1800 377 2252

Many people are now happily married or in good relationships and the crazy sadness of being dumped or failing an exam is just a thing of the past – it’s painful but your life can still be happy – believe us. Stay strong, tell someone and get help: your life will get better and you can be happy again – don’t believe the devil’s lies that you’ll never be loved again, that you’ll never be happy again, that you’re a failure because you failed in something. All successful people all failed at least once – the difference is that they got up after they fell.

Live well – it’s the best revenge on your enemies, especially the devil.

During World War Two, many victims of Singapore were kept in Changi Prison for months and years. After the Japanese’s surrender in 1945, the prisoners were finally released back to freedom.  That may seem like good news right? In fact, one might even say it was the best thing that could ever happen for them. Strangely, many of the prisoners were so psychologically affected that many refused to leave the prison. They were so traumatised by the events that led up to their capture that they were not brave enough to return to their original environment. They believed that the prison was the only place they could be and saw no other possibility of a different life. It was only until plenty of counselling and love was shown to them that they were able to go back to normal life. Their minds had become their prison.

We can liken the above situation the victims faced to smoking. Have you ever wanted to quit smoking one day and kept asking yourself what the secret is? The secret is, there is NO secret! All you need is a willing heart. Many people have tried to quit, many times, but still go back to the habit because smoking simply is just that – a habit. Smokers tell themselves they need it to calm the nerves but psychologically, it is really the urge to suck on the cigarette and the smell that causes our minds to attach calmness with taking a puff. Furthermore, the accumulated pressures of life make us believe that we are doing ourselves a favour by smoking to ease our stress. It’s all in the mind.

So what exactly does smoking do to you, if it is not ‘calming’ us down?

We’ve heard it all before, but the facts still hold true – Smoking makes us smellier and pollutes our blood like how wastes pollute a beautiful clear aquarium. Research has shown that 10 out of 10 people who puffed for the first time will either experience headaches or dizziness.

How harmful it can be? No elaboration is needed on the ingredients inside a stick because in short, it is full of poison. We may have heard some elder ‘heroes’ who have been smoking for decades but claim to be in the pink of health. How true is it, really? Let’s stop being naïve but look beyond mere words. When poison is introduced into a well designed system like our bodies, something is bound to go dreadfully wrong…

A common factor when a Girl falls in love with another girl and likewise for guys with guys. If you have friends who have the same sexual preferences, note that it is not their fault.

There are research after research and thesis after thesis of opinions. Seriously, whatever the cause – May it be natural or caused by peer pressures; there is no need for a “cure” as what religious or man-made organisations proclaimed.

Man only set laws according to their knowledge, not God’s.

What does it mean?

For example – Some Parents in China or even in Singapore will disown their children because they are homosexuals. And if it’s because of strict Family & Religion values, their poor children will grow up NEVER wanting to acknowledge them or even God ever again.

Think – is it really God’s values or man’s values?  Then how to justify their parents’ behaviors?  If we take time to notice, these parents can gossip and be angry about people around them often.

As clear as God’s laws indicates – being angry is as good as stabbing someone with a knife - literally! It is equal to murder; which is as wrong as being a homosexual.

Some people who condemns homosexuals don’t even clean their home’s cups when serving drinks to their guests. Germs and dirt could cause their guest to be sick. It’s really SICK to make people sick. And as far as God’s law is concerned, one who doesn’t love their neighbor properly is breaking the holy commandments and is punishable.

Do you get the picture now?
Society is always striving what’s right and wrong according to their knowledge, yet not knowing the biggest wrong is to put God OUT of our text books. Just because they don’t see God means they can see their brains physically too.
Same goes to religious organisations who have movements to anti such groups of people just to get into the good books of government bodies, not knowing that most governments are run by Satanists that manipulates society today.

But one may ask isn’t it obvious God don’t allow homosexual? According to God’s law – Jesus died paid for the punishment for someone being a homosexual. He/she  is forgiven and free. The rest of the walk to heal and define their gender likings is between him/her and God, not man.

How right or wrong is someone, liking the same gender? If God accepts them for who they are, then let no man condemn it. Man made organisations always puts such sexuality in a “lower” class than the normal straight people, YET they allow SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE as long one is above 16 years old. Do you see the fact about laws? Man chooses what is “right” in their eyes for them, not God.

What if you have friends who like the same gender for the rest of their life? If they ever want to turn straight,  it’s gonna be more love and care of the individual from God Himself that could let him or her decide, rather than man-made opinions.

Nevertheless, NEVER let Nay-Sayers’ opinions tell you that turning straight is never possible because one is never able to handle the opposite sex’s private parts – like a women’s vaigina or a man’s penis.

Here’s a secret nay-Sayers don’t know – Sex was never a need for you to perform during dating.

Who needs to be able to accept the opposite gender’s private parts? Who told you such ‘must’ is a need? You can never DARE nor WANT to speed your car at 200kmph on a small 60km road. You only speed at its MAX above 200kmph on an OFFICIAL racing track and experience FULLY on it. Let no one fool you likewise.

Courtship brings romance, romance brings desires and commitment, it then brings marriage, marriage brings in true love which results in the highest moments, which will be sex.
To ‘must’ know how to have sex and a ‘need’ for it, is all based on the lie of media and movies where the creators themselves have HUGE sexual and marriage failures. Yet we shouldn’t even have them influence us how to live a proper life.

See it now?

Continue to be who you are and trust God to find you an opposite sex partner effortlessly. Make history today.

Think of this senario: We have a new friend in school or at work. We hardly talk to him; probably only once a year. And suddenly you saw this person gossiping to your friends and he even pointed to your direction. You knew something not good is taking place; probably he’s back-stabbing you?

But the next day, the person threw a suprise party for you, together with your friends, because it was your birthday!! So they weren’t talking behind you all the while! And now you feel that burden dropped off. Now, what you FELT BEFORE dosen’t prove REAL. The real fact is – you’ve been believing a LIE!

You are probably regretting and blaming life’s unfairness and cruelty.  We push it to God instead of the devil mostly. Little do we know, we do not understand what standing ground we’re on and who’s on our side at all. Here’s the fact – The devil is AGAINST us. GOD is FOR US.?

The devil is powerless
No matter what impression we have of God and the devil from movies, it’s not based on truth. It’s only the director’s point of view. And sad to say many have been influenced and brainwashed thinking the devil is all powerful, hence it really gave the devil itself to bring fear and destruction to most people’s lives.

Sorry to disappoint horror movie fans, but the truth is that there is NO WAR at all between God and the devil. What does it means? Simply – a created Being can never overthrow its creator. All devils and demons were once beautiful angels, but they themselves lost their powers after going against God. They were kicked off from Heaven and their bodies began to deform itself becoming very rotten and ugly. The devil has not even a 0.001% chance against God at all.

So if someone is powerless, what can he do in order to have power? BY FOOLING others that he has power and others will be intimidated to loose their authorites. Till today, the devil fool us by putting fear and false doctrines to our minds and books, hence they have control over our lives because we “give” them permission to.

If the Devil is powerless, why can’t GOD stop bad things from happening? Why is life still in misery? Because God did not create robots. We are human BEINGS, not human DOINGS. And because our free-will believes in a lie, we hardly have authority over ourselves and our own destiny. Motivational talks and seminars always encourages people to think positive and expecting (preparation) for a good future. Sad to say, it only can be true till a certain extend because the powers of darkness can still have the right to destroy lives.

We may ask of what about those whom succeeded in life being rich and famous? It dosen’t really matter if they believe in the lie or not, correct?  The truth is, what makes us think that they are happy, compared to an average citizen earning an average pay cheque monthly? What we see is only the outside, not the inner secret life. A person who can’t handle $100 can never handle a thousand.  Have we ever envied any millionaire celebrities? Surely we did, but see this - how many Hollywood rich stars have a good life after being rich and famous? If you worked with them, you’d know it’s NONE. Many caught wih financial and marriage downfalls.

THE BIGGEST  LIE FROM HELL: YOU ARE NOT GOD’s! (You don’t belong to Him)

The biggest mistake in life is not failing to accomplish ceratin things, BUT is to believe a lie. The same lie that ‘We are not God’s‘ was made to our greatest grandparents Adam and Eve. Ever heard of the story? – How Satan pulled the whole of creation down with Adam by fooling him to eat the apple.

Think…

It can’t be an apple that caused creation to fall? Can it?

So what lie did Satan used to FOOL Adam and Eve, which empowered all powers of darkness in this world? What’s this eating of one stupid apple have  such a big impact to us all? Here’s the answer – Satan told Adam and Eve that THEY WILL BE LIKE GOD if they eat the apple.

Do you see the problem here?

Adam and Eve WERE GOD’S!! Why do they need to be like GOD?
It’s as good as you needing a sacrifice to prove that you are your parents’. It’s redundant. You BELONG to your Mum and Dad!

Man made organisations makes people work hard to get to GOD. Always portraying GOD far far away.

The the act of eating the apple made Adam and Eve forfeited their high ground standing when they believed what Satan said. GOD created the earth for man, but man gave the key to Satan  to bring sin in. Since then, we are living on a fallen Earth where death and decay occurs. Every generation’s action will determine the next’s fate. Satan sold Adam and Eve a package so impressive and untruthful, they both believed him. Today the same thing is happening via media and “this person say, that person say” instead of what GOD says about us- We’re HIS!
Are we eating what man, devil or religion tells us to do, instead of following our hearts? We can be FREE from the curse of life by knowing  that the devil has no power over us.

God’s love for us man is so great that all demonic forces HATES us. Although we do not have the strength and abilities to travel at speed of light like angels, WE ARE placed ABOVE THEM in GOD’s hieracy. Know this fact before we decide to tattoo or use any demonic visuals in our lives. It’s as good as a CEO of a company who had gone insane, thinking that his staffs owns the company. He then needs to wear tshirts which have the staffs’ faces to make sure he’s still part of his own company.

Knowing all these facts will now help you decide who should run your own life. And GOD will help you out, just wait and see what He can do. Miracles will happen as you believe the right facts.